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The Brightest Star in the Sky
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To Nick, my shining star... I don't have to wonder where
you are... You are in heaven way up above... shining down on us with all your love.... Please stay with me and
help me through... Everyday is harder and harder missing you....
Love ..... Mom
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When Life
Starts Without Me
When tomorrow starts without me, and I'm not there to see; If the sun should rise and find
your eyes all filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry the way you did today, while thinking of the
many things we didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me, as much as I love you, And each time you think
of me I know you'll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, that an angel came
and called my name and took me by the hand, And said my place was ready in heaven far above and that I'd have to leave
behind all those I dearly love.
But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye, for all life, I'd always
thought I didn't want to die. I had so much to live for and so much yet to do, it seemed almost impossible that I
was leaving you . I thought of all the yesterdays, the good ones and the bad, I thought of all the love we shared
and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday I thought just for awhile I'd say good bye and kiss you and
maybe see you smile. But then I fully realized that this could never be, for emptiness and memories would take the
place of me. And when I thought of worldly things that I'd miss come tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, my
heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gate, I felt so much at home. When God looked
down and smiles at me, from His great golden throne, He said, " This is eternity and all I've promised you". Today
for life on what is past but here it starts anew. I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last, and since each
day's the same day, there's no longing for the past.
But you have been so faithful, so trusting, so true. Though
there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn't do. But you have been forgiven and now at last you're free.
So won't you take my hand and share my life with me? So when tomorrow starts without me. don't think we're far apart.
for everytime you think of me, I'm right here in your heart
Written to Nick by Barry Droste September 14, 2005
"PLEASE SAY THEIR NAMES"
The time of concern is over. No longer are we asked how we're doing.
Never are the names of our children mentioned to us. A curtain descends. The moment has passed. Lives slip from frequent recall.
There are exceptions: close and compassionate friends, sensitive and loving family. Still look. Still ask. Still listen. Thank
God for them. For most, the drama is over. The spotlight is off. Applause is silent. But for us the play will never end. The
effects on us are timeless. What can be said, you ask? Please say "their names" to us. Love does not die.
Their
names are written on our lives. The sound of their voices replay within our minds. You may feel they are dead. We feel they
are of the dead and still they live. They ghost-walk our souls, beckoning in future welcome. You say, "They were our children";
we say, " They are". Please say "their names" to us and say "their names" again.
It hurts to bury their memory
in silence. What they were in flesh is no longer with us. What they are in spirit stirs within us always. They were of our
past but they are part of our now. They are our hope for the future. Please understand we cannot forget. We would not if we
could. We know that you cannot know, yesterday we were like you. Understand that we dwell in both flesh and spirit. We do
not ask you to walk this road. The ascent is steep and the burden heavy. We walk it not by choice. We would rather walk it
with them in the flesh, looking not to spirit worlds beyond. We are what we have to be. What we have lost, you cannot feel.
What we have gained you may not see. Please say "their names" for they are alive.
We will meet them again, although
in many ways we’ve never parted. Their spirits play light songs, appear in sunrises and sunsets. They are real and shadow,
they were and they are. Please say "their names" to us and say "their names" again. They are our children and we love them
as we always did. More each day. PLEASE, SAY THEIR NAMES

"A Special Doorway to Heaven"
There is a special doorway
to Heaven. A young man stands there. He surveys all that God has created, the universe and beyond. He gazes toward earth and
says a simple prayer for his mother and family. Jesus calls to him and says, Need not grieve for your family, they are well.
The Father has special work for you to do and it includes those of earth whom are so special to you. You are needed here.
In time they will see you again and all will be as one. This I promise. The young man turns to Jesus and says, I miss them
and they me. My heart wishes to fly through the stars to comfort my mother. Jesus replies, There is no love stronger than
the love that was created the day of your earthly birth. That love will last for all eternity. It is a part of your mother
and all who's lives you touched. A breath from your mouth she will feel on her cheek. A touch from you she will feel in her
heart. Your face with a smile is forever burned into her memory. This will always be. Your words, "I love You" she will always
hear. The young man smiles at Jesus. they walk arm in arm away from the portal of youth. This doorway is for those whose
lives were cut short for the only reason that Our Lord needed them to come home early. Special duties await him, a special
task that he will be better able to perform from heaven. His love for his mother is endless. As your broken heart mends you
will begin to see that he never left your side. Your shadow no longer is yours, it is him. A gentle breeze that lifts your
heart is him. I LOVE YOU NICK!! Mom
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